We all have our own lustful sex fantasies, but in this post we curate what seems to be the top 12 sex fantasies of women in the aggregate.
12. Sex with Multiple Men
That is, multiple men at once, not multiple men over a lifetime—sorry, pal. While you might translate this fantasy to mean she is, well, kind of a slut, you’d be missing the mark entirely. This fantasy is really about being adored. In this scenario, the woman is a sexual idol.
Chelsea, 31, explains: “I love the idea of being so desirable that five guys are salivating over me. Half the time I’m having sex with my boyfriend, I close my eyes and imagine there are four other well-endowed men waiting in line.”
11. Making a Sex Video
Being an actress in her own personal movie is one of the best sexual fantasies you can explore together. And watching it again will be even better.
Before shooting the movie, let her get used to the camera. Take some pictures of her while she is taking her clothes off, touching herself or laying in one million sexy poses. But! Be sure to make them black and white, since we women are crazy about our looks, and without a porn-industry make up, we will see three million small red spots, wrinkles, or (god forbid!) any sign of cellulite on our bodies. So, please, make it black and white. When it’s done, watch it together. This review probably will end with some more steamy sex.
10. Being a Stripper For a Night
There aren’t many professions that are more looked down upon than that of a stripper. That’s why imagining being one, makes for such a naughty and irresistible scenario for women.
Imagine being adorned in smoking hot lingerie and sky-high heels, walking confidently around a high-end club and giving a lap dance to a rich daddy who shoves a 100 dollar bill in your panties. Did it just get hot in here?
The beauty of all these sexual fantasies is, of course, that they don’t necessarily ever have to become a reality. That’s why women can make them as wild, crazy and dirty in their mind as they like. Nobody needs to know except you and your vibrator.
9. Sex with a Beautiful Woman
Not all women accept this controversial fantasy for women. But many women secretly fantasize about having a physical affair with someone like Angelina Jolie or some other hot young bombshell who always talks like she loves to have sex with women. Can you believe that?! Gasp!
Women fantasize about what it would be like to be with someone of the same sex, someone who knows just how she wants to be touched and what will make her orgasm.
8. A Threesome with Two Men
If you’ve ever fantasized about having two women take care of you at the same time, you can’t really blame them. A threesome with two men also gives her the chance to sample certain pleasures that are trickier in an MFF threesome scenario — namely, double penetration, whether that means oral and vaginal, vaginal and anal, anal and oral, or some combination thereof.
Often women who seek double penetration fantasize about the MMF threesome and are excited at the thought of having the full attention of two males to fulfill their wildest desires. Of course, this could be achieved in the MFF version using sex toys, but women who fantasize about this type of threesome are likely craving the real thing.
7. Fifty Shades of Domination
Looking for a Christian Grey to your Anastasia Steele? Nearly 65 percent of women fantasize about being dominated sexually, according to a survey of more than 1,000 people that was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.
“There’s a reason 50 Shades of Grey made such an impact!” says Channa Bromley, a relationship and dating coach. “BDSM is alluring because one partner relinquishes all sense of control. They’re submissive to the person touching them, but subconsciously give themselves permission to be wild, to be orgasmic in response—she doesn’t need to hold back.”
6. Sex in a Public Place
The thrill of sex in a public or semi-public place has long been a popular fantasy: dark alleys, public bathrooms, and movie theaters are common choices. The thrill of getting caught is one commonly cited reason, as is a general interest in exhibitionism.
A word of warning: Having sex out in the open can be a risky endeavor for both your criminal record and for the wellbeing of passersby, so it might be better left a fantasy.
5. Sex with a Younger Man
If you’re a younger guy who’s super turned on by the thought of hooking up with an older woman, good news! Lots of them are fantasizing about the exact same thing. In one capacity it can affirm her attractiveness and in another it allows her to have more power in the relationship as she calls the shots. Other women like the role of taking a younger man and molding him sexually.
A lot of the time, men take (or are expected to take) the lead in bed. If a woman has a secret fantasy of being the one in charge, getting it on with a less experienced guy could be just what she’s looking for.
4. A Threesome with One Man, One Woman
According to sexologist and sexuality counselor Dr. Jess O’Reilly, one of the most common fantasies for women is having a threesome. It seems men have fewer inhibitions when it comes to expressing their desire for an MFF threesome, whereas women (or at least the ones I’m seeing) are more reticent to express the desire.
Fantasies are fantasies for a reason, and when couples actually try bringing a third party into the bedroom IRL, it’s not uncommon for jealousy to come into play. But if you think adding another partner (or partners) to the mix could be fun, try bringing it up in a safe, non-confrontational way.
3. A One-Nighter with a Stranger
Many women relish the idea of meeting up with a mystery man and going to some no-name motel with him for a wild night of uninhibited sex. Sometimes women feel like the only people they can truly let loose with are strangers simply because they won’t be judged. And who cares anyway? They’ll probably never see the beautiful stranger again.
Francine divulged her perspective, “The idea of sharing a passionate night with a stranger and behaving like a sexual predator doesn’t just sound inviting; it sounds delicious. And leaving after we’re done without even knowing each other’s names is the best part.”
2. Masturbating with Partner
A sexual fantasy that women would almost never want to talk about, even with their partner, is the desire to masturbate while their partner does the exact same.
There is something about this that makes women feel like this would bring them closer to their partner, while also being an ultimate tease as they wouldn’t let their partner finish the job – they would just make them watch.
1. Having Romantic Sex
Women are nothing if not romantics at heart. Just look at the numbers. Nearly 85% of women fantasize about having sex in a romantic location, like on a deserted beach. Blame all of those Harlequin romance novels that are marketed to us. A romantic setting can really put a woman in the mood for a romp in the hay, so to speak.
The setting can provide the necessary romance that may be lacking in one’s sexual partner. Candles can distract a woman from a man’s oafishness, for example. I think it’s safe to say that this is one fantasy that women would actually like to see come true.